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Impulsive Behavior and ADD/ADHD
How to Deal with Impulsive Behavior in Children
with ADD/ADHD
Living with ADHD children can be very hard for
a parent. The following guide is a nice guide
into helping you cope with this.
- Set all of the rules and expectations, along
with limits and boundaries while setting both
positive and negative consequences, for your
child in order for them to manage themselves in
the home.
- Know how your child reacts to certain
things. Learn the source of these behaviors by
learning as much as you can about ADHD and how
it presents itself in people. This helps us
become more sympathetic with our children and
have a sense of humor when realizing that your
child does not mean his actions, rather, it’s a
chemical imbalance that’s causing all those
things with poor behavior regulation and
overactive activity level.
- Visit a mental health professional and get
the right diagnosis.
- Use all strategies possible to prevent bad
behavior that can be due to your child’s
hyperactivity and impulsivity levels.
- Check for warning signs, like over
stimulation, being easily frustrated, having a
hard time sitting down, controlling his actions,
etc.
- Relaxation strategies should also be taught.
Help your child practice them and establish
prompts and cues into using these strategies.
- When your child is showing good behaviors,
reward them as soon as possible. If they show
positive self control, you can give them a
reward. Other things to reward could be when
they wait their turn correctly, show good
sportsmanship, and finish a task without doing
it lazily.
- Negative consequences should be handed out,
like time out and loss of privileges, when a
child does not behave the way they should.
- Help your child calm down by giving him a
time and place to relax. This could work for you
as well.
- Prioritize behavioral focus. Don’t worry
about little misbehaviors or annoying things and
deal with important ones like the actions that
are offensive to others and those that endanger
the child’s well being.
- Give them many opportunities to play with
other kids in situations that won’t present a
self control loss. A full day play date is not
good. Allow your child to spend no more than a
few hours max with friends. Talk to the parents
of your child’s friend and let them know of your
child’s situation.
- Encourage your child to seek friendships
with good children
- Teach positive strategies for fixing
conflicts, along with frustration management and
thinking before acting.
- Expect a few broken things around the house.
To minimize damage, arrange your home
accordingly and try to limit glass in favor of
plastic. Expensive things should be not easily
reached. Don’t worry too much about accidents.
They are bound to happen.
- Show your child how to act by acting
properly yourself
- Supervise!
- Encourage your child to express his feelings
and talk about what is bothering him.
- Maximize your child’s success by playing
games that engage participation by not having to
wait too long for a turn.
- Board games and teaching children how to
lose without shame is a virtue.
- Give your child the ability to exercise and
release his energy. Soccer is better for ADHD
children since everyone runs together, as
opposed to bowling where the focus is on the
child. Swimming, dance, gym, and karate are also
good physical activities for ADHD children
because it teaches control and is less
competitive.
- Give your child enough activities to build
strength and increase confidence and motivation.
This will lead to better behavior overall.
- Monitor a treatment plan for your child.
- Adjust your expectations and know that your
child might not be able to act his age. Keep in
mind many ADHD children prefer to play with
younger kids.
Impulsive Behavior and ADD/ADHD
It's so important to combine good
parenting skills with proper nutrition and
natural remedies for ADD and ADHD when dealing
with impulsive behavior. Often times your child
needs to learn good habits via a reward system in
which good behavior is rewarded and bad behavior has
consequences. Discuss this with your child and make
sure they know what the rewards and consequences
will be.
If you have a child with ADHD,
Attend might be the perfect solution.
It’s an
all natural supplement that should be
tried before using the more dangerous drugs. Attend
is a natural homeopathic remedy,
without all
of those risky side effects of
pharmaceutical agents with its inherent risks and
possible addiction.
Attend has the right mix
homeopathic medicinals that can help to
strengthen the neural connections. This helps
improve memory skills. Attend also works well
alongside other all natural ADHD supplements
because of its makeup, a collection of amino acids,
herbs, minerals, and vitamins. Plus, it has shown a
70 percent success rate during clinical trials. We
also recommend having your child take
Bright Brain, a chewable Omega 3 Fatty Acid.
Extress (part of the
Attend Strategy Pack) can also be beneficial
as part of an all natural solution.
Extress
helps to minimize hyperactivity.
Memorin is also part of the Attend Strategy
Pack and helps with associated memory
problems.
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